Sunday, 6/2/24. After church had ended one of my stepson’s old friends approached us. I have spoken about him before. He’s the one that stood up to my stepson when it came to Father’s Day last year and how he was using suicidal as a tool.
This old friend showed us some texts through Snapchat that he ended up having with my stepson after finding him on that platform. This is the friend that was able to get the secret phone number of the second phone and a friend who enjoyed spending time with my stepson regardless of what he might try to claim now.
When my stepson asked who it was and his old friend told him, instead of saying along the lines “oh, hey, bro, how’s it going?” he ended up saying something that caught our attention.
Pretty much a year ago today was the last time they really talked before he was blocked, unblocked, and then blocked again. My stepson told his old friend that he needed to apologize for calling him a spoiled brat. That’s the part that his old friend wanted to show us and how to respond back.
Truthfully, it’s up to him how he wants to respond back. At this point where my stepson is mentally, it doesn’t matter what you say though. This old friend didn’t want to take back the things he said a year ago because he knows the truth as to what happened and not just from being a witness, but also experiencing similar things in his own past.
We will see what ends up happening between the two of them and see if this old friend ends up getting blocked on this platform as well. But in the end, my stepson has become like his mother. It almost sounds like his mother’s words are coming out of his own mouth. For the hatred she has towards my husband’s family, is now the hatred my stepson has.
We will see in due time how this ends up playing out in the end. Will my stepson ever break free of his mother and try to fix the relationship he has lost?
I have seen it work both ways from families I have started to speak to/interview. Some kids can break free once they are adults and it can be challenging. However, some kids will never break free for how much colluding took place and for how long.
The brainwashing is real. The Parental Alienation is real. I'm sorry to see through all this, my stepson lost a great friend.
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